This book is like a tool box of great ideas for the stressed parent... but most of all, it is a breath of fresh air. You are not alone, and probably, your kids really are not that bad. lol... That is the feeling I got when I walked away from the first part of this book. It is an easy, informative read, that gives you tools that you can take with you. And examples that will make you feel much better about your children as siblings... and perhaps your siblings as siblings as well.